MEMOIR

 

With this gap of six months I can definitely say that I learned many things. I’d learnt to stop worrying about things that may or may not happen in my future. I learnt of how to live each and every day of my life to the fullest with joy. I learnt that there is a beautiful free world outside the boundaries I had been laid down to. I learnt that there are different people, friendly people and some eccentric customs surrounded by us. I learnt that the world and places we see are not really the only thing in universe there are places of joy, happiness and relieving greeneries everywhere us, we just need to put some effort to see those things. I learnt that it’s ok to fall sometimes so that one day you can rise by learning something from the fallen. I learnt that the people we see around is always and always double minded. We really can’t believe someone by just being a company of few years. When we start living with those people we’ll find some interesting facts thou. I learnt that making friends is easy but finding someone respectful, loyal and the most important of all trustworthy is the most difficult in today’s world. I learnt that as human we learn from our mistakes and we really need that one person who could explain us that ‘you are doing wrong, you are moving through wrong paths, you are forgetting things you are forgetting yourself for someone and things’. And I also learnt that sometimes its ok to do mistakes and obviously we can do it right until and unless we try for it. I learnt that panicking about something that’s not yet happened in our life is meaningless. I learnt that there are some places around us that can make someone laugh out loud and smile and cry and regret and angry simultaneously at times.

 

               Above everything I learnt that we’ll both fight and love with our loved ones. It’s ok to fight unless we solve it out ourselves. It’s ok to cry unless we have that one person to light you. It’s ok to get scared of things unless we have that one person to hold our back. And obviously that one person is we our self because there no one really in this whole world is about to care you. It’s we ourselves who knows who we are and who could support us, who could really hold our back. I learnt that in the end its always about family to whom we may run towards for a little comfort and relief. I learnt that freedom is everything. Freedom to talk, to do what we want to do, to run to places we wish to see and to fly to the souls with whom we can rally be happy with because in the end freedom is happiness. Because freedom is exploring everything about oneself. Because freedom is being on one’s own wings. I learnt that there are still people whom we believe and got cheated, just because we believed them. I learnt that by time people really change and it can be named as growth. Growth as being a human or of wisdom or of hurdles. And I also learnt that sometimes it is really hard for us to accept the change of people we love the most. We really want them to stay just the way they are but the truth is it is beyond the bounds of possibility.

                I learnt that its ok to somewhat disorder our well-disciplined perfect plans of life. As a person I love to sort things of a day. To plan things of my life. Even of a day. But these 6 months of my journey taught me that its ok to live a life without plans. Its ok to shack and break things that we never-ever thought in our life to do. Because in the end its all about memories. The only things that we laugh at after many years of our sorted-well-prepared life is the very little minute memories we’d made by the past many years. I learnt that when someone asks you what you learnt from your life, we as human should tell thousands of stories instead of the only one we were busy living to make money and a well settled family.

Well as a whole it took 20 years of my life to learn these many things and also these were not taught by someone it’s something that I learned myself and I am grateful for myself. And for us Abhi for giving me a chance and for being my mirror. Got your back buddy!

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